07/21/2016

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The Family The new values, increasing industrialization, the wild search for progress, the doctrines humanists and materialists, ode to a type of freedom that if opposes to the Christian moral, everything this contributed for internal misalignments that had taken to the one new formularization of ' ' to be famlia' ' e, in many cases, to the irreparable losses for that they had not obtained to adjust itself to the new times. Amongst as many influences and results taxes to the family for modernity, we go to detach some that had marked this moment and of some form they had produced changes in the familiar context. ) Loss of the referencial - the family always was the place of ' ' perpetual retorno' '. We could leave to work, to study, to travel and amusing in them, but we knew that we had a home for where, when coming back, everything would be adjusted to a tranquilizadora normality again. Modernity brought other alternatives. The individual extended its world and of a vision intra-home, it started to cultivate a vision exo-home or extra-home. The house already more is not acolhedora, it she is consequently inhibiting conservative and of discoveries, of growth, of expansion, as the world of offers of is there insists on reaching on them. Then, the family started to be the epicenter of moral abalos and relationary that they banished the individual for is - in one feeling inverse of its vocation -, instigated that it was for the temptations happened of the desmantelador power of the seductions of modernity on its life. b) Superficiality - the loss of the familiar referencial - in a subtle transistion of the influence power, mainly on the new members of the family (children, adolescents and young) -, transistion this of the power of coercion...
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True Friendship Having to walk away was inevitable as you might notice when you read this. My wife and I, the Lord's will, we could not have children, but thank God our lives are together, and we got used to live for each other. I never thought that having children was most important in marriage, but I realized that I would have liked to have a daughter, because always in the street, or where I meet a little girl, my attention, and I do not say need but the nostalgia of having a female daughter. We all have our hidden love our people, who wake up in due course. Amor de child to his parents, brother to brother love, love of spouse, love of a father to his children, etc.. That baby was sleeping in me, was that he was awakened the daughters of our friends John and Carmen. At all times we shared together I imagined it was me as a father, I felt esecarino of the girls father, may think that the error was (as I said in confession father), having shown great affection openly. Prejudice jumped quickly and gave the direct comment of a person of the group (in this case I do not want to mention the name), the direct comment "not to hang out with bad intentions." It hurts a lot, and if I say so is because within the parish there are people with very twisted mind who only think the worst of others, and say that it really hurts, because that love was something very special and beautiful that I was going . Now I see clearly when my grandmother told me: "Do not you admire in other people's children." is based on the absolute trust of one friend to another, and if that relationship...